Ghussa Control Karne Ka Tarika har us insan ke liye nihayat zaroori hai jo apni shakhsiyat, gharelu zindagi, aur aakhirat ko sanwarna chahta hai. Ghussa shaitaan ki taraf se ek aag hai jo insan ki aql, tahammul, aur akhlaq ko jala kar raakh kar deti hai. Mufti Tariq Masood ne apne is maroof bayan mein ghusse ki tabahkariyon aur us par qabu pane ke Sunnat-e-Nabawi aur nafsiati nuskhon par aisi roshni daali hai jo har fard ke liye qabil-e-amal mashal-e-raah hai.
Ghusse ki wajah se ghar ujad jate hain, talaqain waqe hoti hain, bhai bhai ka dushman ban jata hai, aur saalon ke taalluqaat pal bhar mein khatam ho jate hain. Is tehreer mein hum Mufti Tariq Masood ke bayan ke markazi noqat, un ke ada karda sabaq-amooz alfaaz (verbatim speech), ahadith-e-mubaraka, aur gusse ko control karne ke 7 mustanad tareeqon ka tafseeli mutala pesh kar rahe hain.
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Ghussa Control Karne Ka Tarika: Mufti Tariq Masood Ka Wazahat-Amooz Khitab
Mufti Tariq Masood apne khusoosi andaz mein farmate hain ke log samajhte hain ke ghussa dikhana mardangi hai ya taqat ki daleel hai, halanke haqeeqat is ke bilkul bar-aks hai. Asal taqatwar woh shakhs hai jo ghusse ke waqt apne jazbaat par qaabu rakh sake aur kisi ki badtameezi ka jawab khamoshi ya husn-e-akhlaq se de.
“Mufti Tariq Masood farmate hain: ‘Bhai ghaur se suniye! Ghusse mein insan ki aql kaam karna chhod deti hai. Shaitaan us waqt insan ke dimagh par sawar hota hai. Aap ne dekha hoga ke aadmi ghusse mein aakar aisi baatein keh deta hai jis par sari zindagi pachhtana padta hai. Talaq de di, biwi ko maar diya, aulad ko aaq kar diya, bhai ko thappad maar diya—aur jab ghussa thanda hua to sar pakad ke baith gaye ke yeh kya ho gaya! Deen-e-Islam ne humein sikhaya hai ke ghusse ko peena seekho. Ghussa peene wale ko Allah farmata hai ke Mein qayamat ke din tamam makhlooq ke samne usay bulakar azeem ajar doonga!'”
Mufti sahab ne wazeh kiya ke insani rishton ko bachane ke liye tahammul aur bardasht se kaam lena chahiye. Agar insan apne aamaal ki islaah chahta hai to tauba aur astaghfar ke sath sath husn-e-akhlaq ikhtiyar kare jaisa ke hamari tehreer Touba Aur Astaghfar Ki Fazilat mein bhi wazeh kiya gaya hai.
Quran Majeed Mein Ghussa Peene Walon Ki Fazilat
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ne Quran Majeed mein mutaqqeen (parhezgaron) ki ahem tareen sifaat mein ghusse ko dabane aur logon ko maaf karne ko shumar kiya hai. Surah Aal-e-Imran ki ayat 133-134 mein irshad-e-bari ta’ala hai:
الَّذِينَ يُنفِقُونَ فِي السَّرَّاءِ وَالضَّرَّاءِ وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ
Tarjuma: “Jo khush-hali aur tangi dono halaton mein kharch karte hain, aur ghussa peene wale hain aur logon ko maaf karne wale hain; aur Allah ehsan karne walon se mohabbat farmata hai.” (Surah Aal-e-Imran, 3:134)
Is ayat mein ‘Al-Kaazimeen Al-Ghaiz’ ka lafz aya hai, jis ka matlab hai ke ghusse ki aag bhadak rahi ho lekin insan usay zabt kar le aur samne wale par qabu pane ke bawajood badla na le. Yeh azeem sifat ahl-e-jannat ki nishani hai.
Ahadith-e-Mubaraka: Asal Pehlwan Kaun Hai?
Rasoolullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ne ghusse ke muamlay mein rehnumai farmate huye azeem tareen usool bayan farmaye hain:
- Asal Bahadur Ki Tareef: Hazrat Abu Hurairah (R.A.) se riwayat hai ke Rasoolullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ne farmaya: “Pehlwan woh nahi jo kushti mein doosron ko pachhad de, balki asal taqatwar woh shakhs hai jo ghusse ke waqt apne nafs par qaabu pa le.” (Sahih Bukhari: 6114, Sahih Muslim: 2609)
- La Taghdab (Ghussa Mat Karo): Ek Sahabi ne Rasoolullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ki khidmat mein aakar arz kiya: “Ya Rasoolullah! Mujhe koi mukhtasar naseehat farma dijiye.” Aap (S.A.W.) ne farmaya: “Ghussa mat karo.” Us shakhs ne bar bar pucha aur Aap (S.A.W.) ne har martaba yahi farmaya: “Ghussa mat karo.” (Sahih Bukhari: 6116)
- Qayamat Ke Din Buland Darja: Hazoor Akram (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ne farmaya: “Jis ne apne ghusse ko roka halanke woh badla lene par qadir tha, Allah Ta’ala qayamat ke din tamam makhlooq ke samne us ka dil aman aur imaan se bhar dega.” (Sunan Abi Dawud: 4777)
Ghusse ki halat mein insan doosron ke huqooq talaf karta hai, halanke Islam mein sadaqa aur ata ki bohot fazilat hai jaisa ke Sadaqa Dene Ke Faiday mein bayan kiya gaya hai ke momin hamesha khair aur sakhi mizaj hota hai.
Sunnat-e-Nabawi Ke Mutabiq Ghussa Control Karne Ka Tarika: 7 Amli Asbaab
Jab bhi ghussa aaye to Shariat-e-Islamiya ne us ke tod ke liye zail ke 7 marhalawaar aamaal sikhaye hain:
| No. | Sunnat Nuskha | Hadith Ka Hawaala Aur Tareeqa-e-Amal |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Ta’awwuz Padhna (A’udhu Billah) | ‘A’udhu billahi minash shaitanir rajeem’ padhein. Hadith mein hai ke do shakhs lad rahe the to Aap (S.A.W.) ne farmaya: Agar yeh yeh kalima padh le to is ka ghussa jata rahega. (Bukhari: 6115). |
| 2 | Khamoshi Ikhtiyar Karna | Aap (S.A.W.) ne farmaya: ‘Jab tum mein se kisi ko ghussa aaye to woh khamosh ho jaye’ (Musnad Ahmad). Khamoshi jhagde ko jad se khatam kar deti hai. |
| 3 | Jism Ki Position Tabdeel Karna | Rasoolullah (S.A.W.) ne farmaya: ‘Agar khada ho to baith jaye, agar phir bhi na jaye to lait jaye’ (Abu Dawud: 4782). Is se khoon ka dabao kam hota hai. |
| 4 | Thanday Paani Se Wuzu Karna | Aap (S.A.W.) ne farmaya: ‘Ghussa shaitaan se hai aur shaitaan aag se bana hai, aur aag paani se bujhai jati hai, pas jab ghussa aaye to wuzu kar lo’ (Abu Dawud: 4784). |
| 5 | Us Jagah Se Hat Jana | Jis kamray ya mahol mein tanaza paida ho raha ho wahan se chand lamhon ke liye nikal jayein taake aql ko sochne ka mauqa mile. |
| 6 | Allah Ki Qudrat Aur Maafi Ko Yaad Karna | Sochiye ke jitni qudrat mujhe is kamzor bande par hasil hai, us se kahin zyada qudrat Allah ko mujh par hasil hai. |
| 7 | Jannat Ke Azeem Inaam Ka Tasawwur | Ghusse ko peene ke badlay mein aakhirat ki azeem naimaton aur Allah ki raza ko madde nazar rakhein. |
Ghusse Ke Tibbi Aur Nafsiati Nuqsanat
Jadeed medical science aur psychology ne bhi is baat ki tasdeeq ki hai ke musalsal ghusse mein rehne se insani jism par tabahkun asraat murattab hote hain:
- Blood Pressure Aur Dil Ke Amraaz: Ghusse ke dauran stress hormones (Adrenaline aur Cortisol) tezi se release hote hain, jis se dil ki dhadkan tez hoti hai aur heart attack ka khatra barh jata hai.
- Dimaghi Shariano Ka Phutna (Brain Stroke): Shadeed ghusse mein achanak blood pressure barhne se falij aur stroke ke waqiat numoodar hote hain.
- Quwwat-e-Mudafiat (Immune System) Ki Kamzori: Ghussa jism ke mudafiati nizam ko mutasir karta hai, jis se beemariyon ke khilaf ladne ki salahiyat ghat jati hai.
Mufti Tariq Masood is nuqte par zor dete hain ke deen-e-Islam ne jo hidayat 1400 saal pehle ata farmai theen, aaj science unhi ki tasdeeq kar rahi hai. Insan ko chahiye ke woh apne dimaagh ko pursakoon rakhe aur rozana ke azkaar karein jaisa ke Jumarat Ka Khas Wazifa mein bataya gaya hai.
Ghusse Mein Di Gai Talaq Aur Fiqhi Masail
Mufti Tariq Masood apne bayan mein ek nihayat ahem aur dardnak muamlay ki taraf tawajjo mabzooz karwate hain: ghusse mein talaq dena. Ulema-e-Hanafiya aur jumhoor fuqaha ke mutabiq aam ghusse ki halat mein di gayi talaq waqe ho jati hai, chahe insan baad mein kitna hi kahe ke “mera irada nahi tha”. Mufti sahab farmate hain ke shaitaan mard ko aisi aag mein jhonkta hai ke woh 3 kalimaat bol kar apne haste baste aashiyanay ko tabah kar leta hai. Is liye ghusse ke waqt zaban par taala lagana mard ke imaan aur sharafat ki asal aazmaish hai.
Khulasa Aur Amli Nasihat
Ghussa Control Karne Ka Tarika ko sikhna aur apni zindagi ka hissa banana har shakhs ke liye dunya aur aakhirat dono mein najaat ka zariya hai. Mufti Tariq Masood ka yeh khitab humein sikhata hai ke sachha mard woh hai jo gussa aane par khud ko kabu mein rakhe, wuzu kare, khamosh ho jaye, aur badla lene ke bajaye afw o darguzar se kaam le. Allah Ta’ala hum sab ko ghusse ki aafat se mehfooz farmaye aur husn-e-akhlaq ki daulat se nawaze. Aameen!
